Love and relationships are the most thought over spectrum for everyone worldwide. They exist, yet we think they do not. At times, they turn out to be temporary, but their existence is something we feel is necessary. Every phase in life is never permanent. There are ups and downs because people change, situations change, things wither but the life has to go on. Here are some little things that we need to keep in mind when sorting a relationship:
There is nothing called, the right or wrong!
In this world, whatever we do is always a clear representation of our thoughts. Our thoughts depend on our perceptions and our way to perceive depends on our situations! We all are born different with different situations and inference. We never can replicate each other exactly alike. So, whenever someone comes up with something that we do not understand or think it as bad, it is because our thoughts which have been formed out of our situations really did not anticipate anything of that kind. So, then we get judgemental in a vague manner, not really knowing the right because nothing has been ever written anywhere. It is created by us!
Do not try and change the world!
Just keep one thing in mind, everyone has a life and a way to live it. You can never say, yours is better or someone else’s is not. When we try and change someone for ourselves, we try and impose our conditions on them. We try to make them something, which they can never be because everyone is born and brought up differently and when you try to change them means you are just searching for your own replicas in them. So better be with yourself!
Meet more in real than virtually.
Technology is the best way to miscommunicate things. We say and write differently. You never know what they may perceive when they read what you have written hence making it harder!
Life is an ongoing process and it never stops. At times, it is important to take out a while. Things never happen according to what we think because the world is much more than we can perceive, hence, we can never make things happen as to what we think is “Time”. Life has been going on since ages and it cannot be confined to just the hours and days we make.
Accept each other’s habits.
People do things their way. Everyone has a way. We all need acceptance for what we are. Hence, we first need to be flexible enough to accept others for what they are. Nothing is bad, had it been it wouldn’t have existed at all. If it is surmised as bad for us does not mean it would be for the one who is doing it as well.
Try being more accepting and things would be at their place well!