Sex has been an important part of everyone’s life. Even if you know a lot about it but first times are always a mess! But with the help of some of the tips, you can make it an experience memorable for life. Read out the text below to know about these helpful tips:
1) Practise
Practise is what not only makes a man perfect but also makes sex perfect! To be a perfectionist in the bed, one needs to do the sex as many times as possible.
2) Don’t relate it with movies
Always remember what we see on the screen is not happening in real but in the reel. So don’t relate your sex life with whatever you see in the movies. Make it real with whatever knowledge you have about it!
3) Good Humour
During the sex, there will be body part adjustments, stomach grumbles and burps and at times even gas. If it is first-time sex for you and of your partner, know that sex is clumsy to start with.
4) Confident
Not in sex life but in real life too whenever a person tries something new there are somethings to take care of. So do the things in which you feel comfortable as there will be nothing to regret later.
5) Foreplay
It includes starting with kissing, sharing fantasies, or touching one another’s genitals. The purpose of foreplay is to add to sexual excitement, and, especially for women, to help them prepare for intercourse.
6) Lubrication
Lubrication makes sex more comfortable or enjoyable because it reduces friction and irritation. Lubricant can help relieve anxiety.
7) Protection
It should be on top of your list. Protecting your partner will take your love to the next level. And condoms can even help sex last longer. Being safe is your responsibility: female condoms, birth control, and so on. Do your research to have anxiety-free and healthy sex.
8) It is ok to say no!
Like everything depends on our mood, sex too! If you don’t feel like having sex say straight to your partner. It ultimately helps him/her also because sex is a two-person thing.
9) Work on yourself!
Know what your body demands and explore your own body. If you will have an idea what works for you, you will tell your partner.
10) Bedroom essentials
Dim the lights, add a candle or two, light some incense for better sex, more relaxation, and more connection with your partner. Keep your phones off and out of the room. Invest in scents.
11) Relaxing your body
Relax your body before having sex. Sensual massage is one of the most efficient ways to get out of your head and into your body while simultaneously connecting with your partner and engaging in some light foreplay.
12) Do not watch porn
Watch holistic, erotic or vintage porn, as the sex online is not good for the body or soul! When you spend less time watching fake and airbrushed actors having fake and airbrushed sex, it steal the real fun and thunder of you real-life sex with your partner.