The Latest Foreplay Trends: Hip or Hype?
While there are many ways to be more intimate with your partner, one of the most compelling ways is foreplay. According to experts, foreplay lets you have a deeper understanding of each other’s intimate preferences.
The more you know each other’s intimate personalities, sharing your desires and fantasies becomes much.
Keeping this in mind, here are some of the hottest foreplay trends. But are these trends hip or just the hype? You decide!
Experiment with temperatures
Using ice during lovemaking is one of the latest trends Using ice can be enjoyable for both partners and offer a completely new sensation in bed. There are many ways to add ice to your foreplay. You can appreciate your partner’s body with a chilling cube and many other ways to fool around with. But if you find it too cold to handle – you can experiment with ice cream instead! Make sure to be careful when using food near intimate parts to avoid the chance of infection.
You can even go to the opposite end of the temperature spectrum and experiment with hot wax!
Listing out the things to explore
If both of you are the adventurous kind, why not sit down and come up with a list of all the intimate fantasies you’d like to try? Your ideas can be as crazy or wild as you may like, and you can take a hint from the most popular inspirations. e.g. Adult toys, Couple games, personal lubricants, and much more. You can even explore various flavors or water-based lubricants if your partner loves particular fruits.
Make sure to keep this activity list easy to reach in your bed, like on a nightstand, and try to strike one thing off the list each week.
Send risky texts
Sexting is another common but hot form of foreplay. Teasing and arousing your partner on a smartphone creates unbeatable virtual foreplay.
So take that phone out and text exactly what you’d like to do to your partner or what you want them to do. And don’t be afraid to add details! For instance, if you want to use leather handcuffs on them, let them know exactly how you plan on doing so. Or you can also tell them about your ideal sexual experience and how you’d like to replicate it. This act compels them to imagine the scenario they will rush to your place in excitement.
Turn up the music
Have you ever tried listening to music while having sex? If you haven’t, now’s the time. Select whatever works for both you and your partner. It can be slow songs, country songs, R&B, or even theme songs from your favorite shows.
Turn up the music and move your body to the rhythm for a more sensual experience. In case you don’t have a common playlist yet, then making one intimate playlist can also be tempting experience.
Watch your partner disrobe
When we’re in bed, we’re often too excited for what’s to come that we forget to go slow and take in every moment. This is particularly true for couples who have been together for years.
A much better approach would be to take pause and admire your partner as they undress. And while it may be tempting to do so, don’t touch them while they undress. Focus on looking at every inch of your partner and you’re sure to have a delightful night.
Kanu D’Silva believes India’s landscape of love is as diverse as its people. Modern Indian men and women don’t settle for less when it comes to romance and becoming more vocal with their intimate needs. She is a voice of this young generation and writes her opinions at Plezor.com